How can i get laid in high school

Girls still acted weird about it. But in college girls always wanna fuck. Joined: Sep 19, Messages: 1, Likes Received: I did, many times. I also had 2 long term relationships as well. I grew up in the inner city, all of my friends and everyone I knew was having sex at 13 if not younger. I have many friends that were parents before they turned I have friends now that are Grand Parents and in their mid thirties. Joined: Dec 26, Messages: Likes Received: Joined: Feb 7, Messages: Likes Received: No but right after.

Joined: Mar 15, Messages: 2, Likes Received: 1, Courtesy of boarding school making us feel like we were already in college, and also because I had a couple of long term relationships. Make friends influence people in your school to come support you and your club. Don't just stand on the side sighing wishing someone will notice you make yourself visible.

And yeah you'll probably get laid you just need to get in good with the right people. But it's not unrealistic If you don't like those things then don't do it but if you do them stock to it like you said acting. How do you define yourself exactly do you have friends? Are you known by many or stand in the shadow?

Are you happy with yourself or not so much? If you are fine continue with it just try to invest your time into your true self and what you enjoy, if you aren't then you should do so, etching about it and not feel bad for yourself. You don't have to stray away from who you are but let it be known it be known. I would tell you it's only 4yrs but it's not. RichardBoehner wicked good argument dude.

You should be on the Supreme Court. At least average maybe a bit above average, I don't want a girl I think I look better than. I'd say dating, but that would mean actually talking to people, so, I guess just sex. Lift some weights get swole and then clean up wherever the party is at.

Well, I can't get pregnant, and I don't think my virginity is special. I'm not an adult, I can't get escorts or go to clubs. Besides, that's pathetic. No, I'm sick of having to wait til college, I'm sick of having to hear how my life is bound to be shit before college, college this, college that, if I won't be happy before college, I'll probably kill myself before I get there. Okay well even if you don't wait until college, wait until you really like someone enough to do the dirty with them.

Otherwise you might regret it. You're right, I don't. All I know is that I am glad I waited. But if you think you're ready than go for it, best of luck.

I've already accepted I won't have a girlfriend, or at least not a meaningful relationship with anyone I'd actually care about beyond looks believe me, I've tried and failed, hard. So, I just want to know how I can get laid with a hot girl, not even hot, just average. I've finally realized, after the one girl I really did care about rejected me, most girls are boring to talk to and conversation is basically pointless, and, if the only meaningful thing you can get out of girls is sex, how do I get that?

Share Facebook. Add Opinion. The-Dude-Next-Door 75 opinions shared on Dating topic. Xper 7. Dude join a sport in HS. And learn how to be a smartass from all the sport practices and games and working out with all your buddies. And do stupid stuff that makes great stories from HS, and it makes you a funny guy. Then when you go to college and live in the dorm rooms, meet some girls there. And make the girls laugh in college, because you learned how to be funny in HS with all your sport pals.

And you'll be in good shape from working out, and you'll start a life time habit of staying fit though out college. Then you will join a co-ed intramural sport in college, and you will have to mingle with girls in college. Then you can get laid when you go back to your dorm room. The moral of the story is you need to find a sport and play it! Is this still revelant? Just because you care about a girl does not mean she is right for you.

We all grow up thiking this girl or that girl will make us happy But the reality is that's rarely actually true. You are young. I am thirty- five an alone. The biggest tragedy is if you stop maturing and stay in this self indulgent rut you are in. Never growing. Never becoming a better person.

When you are my age and the fun is over, you will realize what a mistake you have made, and you will NOT be ready for a girl who will complete you. You sound like a fucking dick! Sex isn't the only meaningful thing you can get out of a girl and if you think it is then you don't deserve a girl this girl probably rejected you because you were being an asshole!

I can tell you right now that you could easily go to a party and have meaningless sex with any drunk girl with low self esteem and low standards but as far as losing your virginity goes you should wait and just go slow with a girl that you really care about, that will make the sex times better plus it will actually mean something and be memorable.

Lycralady Xper 5. I think your biggest problem is your conversational skills. Or more accurately put your listening skills. Bear in mind that you should not overdo and make it seem like you talk about sex every day, but just make sure that when you do talk about sex — you are the one that can talk the dirtiest joke and still be totally cool about it.

Show people that you can put up with high sexual tension. After high school, try to do day game as much as you can. Get experience in talking with strangers. This will also help you get laid in high school a lot. Approach her, tease her, talk with her, add her on Facebook, etc.

They are the easy ones. However, when you get into 11th grade, girls from 9 th and 10 th grade will be into you. Especially the 9 th grade. This is your chance. You should try to find sluts in 9 th or 10 th grade very fast and target them. Be direct, be sexual. You already have value because you are older, you just need to talk with them, make some comfort, be sexual and viola.

Do you know who fuck the most chicks in high schools? Singers in bands. They act like rock stars and high school girls love it. Things like fitness, not video games. You are in high school. Escalate physically starting with secret handshakes to tickle fights to hugs and kisses.

Escalate conversationally by getting her number and talking to her over the phone; if you're too shy to do that then ask for her Facebook. Lots of guys never ask for a girl's phone number. The girl takes this as a sign that the guy doesn't like them. Don't fall into this scenario. Part 2. Have some style. Having a great sense of fashion and taking care of your hygiene are two of the most important factors in determining how attractive you are to the girls in your school. If you are currently wearing striped sweaters, awkward looking jeans, and tennis shoes, it's time for a change.

Fix up your hair, buy some shirts that fit you, and start wearing more dapper shoes. Shower regularly, floss and brush your teeth twice daily. You need to smell nice to make an impression. Purchase or find some low-rise, slim fit pants or jeans.

If you're on the heavier side, baggier pants are probably better but don't get lost in a sea of cloth. Skinny jeans that hug every inch of your legs are probably not the best fit, unless you're sure you can pull it off. Purchase or find some trim collared shirts.

You don't need dragons or tribal patterns on your shirts to impress girls. A simple plaid, one-tone, or striped pattern will do. Purchase or find some soft, simple sweaters or jackets.

Give girls an excuse to get close to you. V-necks are in style currently. Crew necks and hoodies also work. Go with what you think will look good on you. Get a nice haircut. But it will be worth it. Look through magazines like GQ or Vanity Fair and bring a picture along of someone who has the cut you'd like. Be friendly. So be more talkative and get to know the people in your school, your class, etc. Always smile and laugh. Try to have a good time with everyone. If you're not looking like you're enjoying yourself, you are a turn-off.

Get involved in what you like. High school can be tough for a lot of us because we're still figuring out what we like and what we don't. If you do have hobbies, interests, or curiosities, find other people who share that share passion. Chances are you'll get along with them. Do favors for other people. Don't let other people walk all over you and exploit you, but help out people who seem trustworthy and appreciative. Your social stock will climb.

Do things outside of school. The guy who's connected to a social scene outside of school attracts a lot of people guys and girls because the school scene often lacks that edge and vibrancy. Stand up for your beliefs. Girls love guys who have goals in their lives and stand up for themselves. If a girl decides to be mean to you, don't accept it. Tell her it was not a nice thing to do, and be done with her.

Don't be a total jerk about it though, but rather say it in a sense of talking to your little brother or sister. It's harmless, but you want to make sure they do the right thing. Don't be afraid of rejection.